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I hate my life and i want to kill myself?

I hate my life and i want to kill myself?

Postby meldrik90 » Wed Jan 12, 2011 5:15 am

i'm 15 and i hate my dad. He is always swearing at me and calling me useless and treats me like crap. everything i do is wrong according to him. he always takes my phone, ipod, psp and xbox off me for no reason and all he cares about is studying. I study for the whole weekend and when i go to take a break he just does this sarcastic laugh and swears at me and tells me to study more. I'm not allowed to sleep around my friends house and i'm not allowed to go to any parties. he has massive anger problems and hits me for the stupidest things and i hate him. He expects me to be perfect at everything like studying, behaviour and when i get anything bad at school, he just shouts and swears. He acts like he is my master not my dad and instead of asking for things from me, he demands, and whenever he does something bad to me and i say how would you like it if this happened to you he says i can do whatever the f**k i want to you, you're a peice of **** compared to me. i have a psyciatrist (who is my dad's best friend????) and he is useless. i hate my dad sooo much and i want to kill myself. i would be grateful for any help!
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Postby lindael » Wed Jan 12, 2011 5:18 am

i was raised by people who didn't think much of me, either. it hurts a lot to think you have no value to the folks who are supposed to love you. try to hang in there & get through this. in spite of the bullying about education, learn absolutely everything you can....it will make it easier for you to leave home later on & not be forced to move back if things don't go well (i had to do that). the more education you have, the better job you can get & become financially able to support yourself. if things with your dad never improve, then you need to be able to handle your life without ever going back. my relationship with my dad got better very, very slowly, but we're doing pretty good now. my relationship with his wife at that time (1st stepmom) got better a couple yrs after i left home & they got divorced. she & i have been friends now longer than anyone else i've ever known. i think having a psychiatrist who is close pals with a parent is simply the wrong choice for a child. he's not supposed to tell your dad what you say during sessions, but since you're just 15, he can say pretty much what he wants to your parents. i suggest trying to get a different therapist if at all possible. you could also explain to the current one that his friendship with your dad prevents you from trusting him. if you say something like that calmly, he might make the recommendation himself to your folks that a different therapist would be better for you. please don't kill yourself. there's a lot you'd miss and i'm sure there are people who care very much what happens to you. like i said before, learn everything you can in school & be able to support yourself completely. also, learn about bills & bank accounts & all the other parts of living an independent life. you'll need a car at some point, so if you know anyone who works on cars, it would be a good time to learn something about car maintenance. good luck!
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Postby priestly93 » Wed Jan 12, 2011 5:22 am

Don't kill yourself, your dad is obviously a horrible father, either he loves you to the point it drives you suicidal or has his own terrible problems. Call social services or the police, what he is doing is genuine abuse. Really, there is no point in killing yourself, you have an entire future ahead of you, even if this bit is super nasty, you can do something against him now, he is totally outside of the law.
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Postby penleigh » Wed Jan 12, 2011 5:39 am

I just hope to god he hasn't prayer abuse you, someone must have failed him in his life to be so hard on you, or your not telling the whole story, cause that's teenager abuse. Shoot you have 3 years left make the best of it, stay clear of the thing you know pisses him off.
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Postby arwood » Wed Jan 12, 2011 5:44 am

i swear, we must have the same dad. I really want to just kill him and then myself. Just like you said he takes everything away from me and call me names for no reason. My mom is the nice one and calms me down but we had a talk and she said we are leaving him so right now i am just ignoring him and going with what he says.
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Postby alfonse44 » Wed Jan 12, 2011 5:53 am

look i have been through exact same
and still go through it
just be quiet
dont talk to your dad
if he says some thing do it
and when you have a party just go
and come back before 10
and if he shouts
just give him a piece of your mind
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Postby eumann37 » Wed Jan 12, 2011 6:05 am

This is abuse on his part. Are you the only one there, besides your dad? Where is your mom?
he is a horrible role model and unfit father.
If your psychiatrist isn't helping, I would try and find someone else, if possible.
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Postby gannie95 » Wed Jan 12, 2011 6:13 am

the answer is simple. kill your dad.
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Postby cormack75 » Wed Jan 12, 2011 6:25 am

I don't want to be nasty or anything but he is probably being this aggressive because he might not have had all the opituinties when he was your age. However that is no excuse for what he is doing. If he is driving you suicidal and making you feel depressed call the social services or the police. If you cannot stand him that much you need to leave. You cannot let your dad bully you.
If you do your work it's fine, but he cannot stop you from socialising with your friends and having some relax time. Your a human being, your 15, you should not be put under that much pressure. It is hard to talk to people about this situation and it's great you've come here, however you really need to talk to someone who can make a change, e.g. the authorities.
Now listen to me, do not do anything stupid. Your 15, you have a future. You can change what path you are on.
I recommend you do as your father wishes (up to a point) until you get help by the authorities. Arguing will just make things much worse. You seem a good kid, don't let this get you down!

I really hope this has helped you and if you need any advice in the future just contact me, I will add you on yahooanswers. Best of luck!

Jack RPD.
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